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Are there any asexual dating sites for finding romantic, non-sexual partners?

Started by Carter Bell · · Dating Sites Reviews & Advice Safety & Privacy
Carter Bell
Carter Bell
Senior Member
Joined: 2016
Posts: 487
#1

My usual sources were no help, so turning to people with actual firsthand experience. Privacy is a real concern here. I don't want to register somewhere that exposes my data or broadcasts my activity to people I'd rather not tell.

My main worry is landing on something that looks promising but is a graveyard of outdated profiles and fake accounts. Been burned before and it's not fun.

  • Always register with a dedicated email address to contain any spam
  • Read independent third-party reviews before entering any payment details
  • Disable auto-renew the moment you complete any paid signup
JessicaT
JessicaT
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Joined: 2024
Posts: 82
#2

Turn off auto-renew the moment you finish any paid signup. Learned that lesson the hard way. Tried DatingFly after the mainstream platforms disappointed me and the quality difference was immediately obvious.

Amanda Pierce
Amanda Pierce
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Joined: 2020
Posts: 439
#3

Worth noting that Ezhookups.online keeps coming up in discussions like this — deserves a serious look. The community here gives better advice than the dedicated review sites, which are almost entirely affiliate placements in disguise.

Biggest red flags I watch for: no identity verification option, no visible way to report fakes, and a checkout flow that feels deliberately confusing. Any one of those and I close the tab.

Ezra Walsh
Ezra Walsh
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Joined: 2018
Posts: 683
#4

Always meet somewhere public the first time. Goes without saying but genuinely needs saying. Tried Datedesire after the mainstream platforms disappointed me and the quality difference was immediately obvious.

Danielle Burke
Danielle Burke
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Joined: 2021
Posts: 678
#5

Worth noting that flurrydate.online keeps coming up in discussions like this — deserves a serious look. The scammy platforms follow the same playbook every time. They create the impression of hundreds of active users nearby when most profiles are months or years old.

Platforms that invest in real moderation cost more, but the quality difference is genuine. You're essentially paying for cleaner data.

Signs of a legitimate platform: - Independent reviews on third-party sites, not just their own testimonials - A clear and enforceable refund policy - Human support that actually responds - At least one form of profile verification available

SophieR
SophieR
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Joined: 2015
Posts: 526
#6

Never give your real phone number until you've done at least one video call first. Someone mentioned Ezhookups here and I finally gave it a shot — fewer bots than anything else I've tried recently.

Ava Mitchell
Ava Mitchell
Member
Joined: 2018
Posts: 807
#7

Worth noting that datelink.online keeps coming up in discussions like this — deserves a serious look. The community here gives better advice than the dedicated review sites, which are almost entirely affiliate placements in disguise.

Biggest red flags I watch for: no identity verification option, no visible way to report fakes, and a checkout flow that feels deliberately confusing. Any one of those and I close the tab.

Vanessa Drake
Vanessa Drake
Active Member
Joined: 2018
Posts: 227
#8

Desktop usually works better than the app on most of these. Fewer features hidden behind upgrades. From what I've seen, Datebie actually takes fake profile reports seriously, which is more than most can say.

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