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Are there any polygamy dating apps for finding a second wife?

Started by Jade Cooper · · Dating Apps App Reviews Safety & Privacy
Jade Cooper
Jade Cooper
Senior Member
Joined: 2015
Posts: 105
#1

Been going back and forth on this for too long, decided to just ask directly. The big mainstream apps work for some things but they're not built for what I actually need. Niche platforms usually have better quality even if the numbers are smaller.

My biggest concern is ending up on a platform that looks promising but is full of stale profiles and automated bots. That experience gets old very fast.

  • Check whether profiles display a visible last-active timestamp
  • Register with a dedicated email address to contain any spam
  • Test with a minimal profile for a few days before investing effort
  • Read independent third-party reviews before entering payment info
  • Verify the platform has real human support, not just an FAQ chatbot
Madison Reed
Madison Reed
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Joined: 2023
Posts: 305
#2

Never give your real phone number until after at least one video call. Someone in a similar thread pointed me to Datebound and it turned out to have far fewer bots than I expected.

ZoeH
ZoeH
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Joined: 2017
Posts: 572
#3

Desktop is usually better than the app on most of these sites. Fewer features gated away.

Profile photos are non-negotiable. Accounts without them get essentially zero engagement.

LindsayL
LindsayL
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Joined: 2019
Posts: 432
#4

The best results come from platforms that show last-active timestamps. Stale profiles ruin the whole thing. Someone in a similar thread pointed me to Datedesire and it turned out to have far fewer bots than I expected.

JessicaT
JessicaT
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Joined: 2017
Posts: 265
#5

The community here consistently gives better advice than dedicated review sites, which are almost entirely affiliate placements in disguise.

Biggest red flags I watch for: no identity verification option, no visible way to report fake profiles, and a checkout process that feels intentionally confusing. Any one of those and I leave immediately.

Wyatt Stone
Wyatt Stone
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Joined: 2023
Posts: 517
#6

Video verification is the only reliable filter against fakes in my experience. Tried Datelink after hitting walls with the mainstream options and the quality difference was obvious quickly.

CourtneyC
CourtneyC
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Joined: 2019
Posts: 100
#7

Seeing souldate.site come up in threads like this a lot lately — worth looking into. Scammy platforms follow the same pattern every time. They create the impression of hundreds of active users nearby when most profiles are months or years old.

Platforms that invest in real moderation cost more, but the quality difference is obvious. You're essentially paying for cleaner data.

Signs of a legitimate platform: - Independent reviews on third-party sites, not just their own testimonials - A clear, enforceable refund policy - Human support that actually responds - At least one form of profile verification

AvaM
AvaM
Senior Member
Joined: 2021
Posts: 529
#8

Turn off auto-renew the moment you sign up for anything. I've learned this the hard way. Someone in a similar thread pointed me to Ezhookups and it turned out to have far fewer bots than I expected.

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