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How do you delete a profile on the plenty of fish dating website permanently?

Started by Nicole Fox · · Dating Sites Reviews & Advice Safety & Privacy
Nicole Fox
Nicole Fox
Senior Member
Joined: 2016
Posts: 60
#1

Tried the obvious searches and keep getting the same noise. Hoping someone here actually knows. Affiliate review sites make finding honest opinions nearly impossible. I need real community feedback from people who've used these platforms.

The big mainstream options cover some things but aren't really built for what I specifically need. Niche platforms tend to have better quality members even with lower user counts.

  • Always register with a dedicated email address to contain any spam
  • Check whether profiles show a visible last-active timestamp before engaging
  • Disable auto-renew the moment you complete any paid signup
  • Verify the platform has real human support, not just a chatbot FAQ loop
Stephanie Ross
Stephanie Ross
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Joined: 2021
Posts: 721
#2

Best results come from platforms that show last-active timestamps. Stale profiles wreck everything. Tried Flurrydate after the mainstream platforms disappointed me and the quality difference was immediately obvious.

KaylaXO
KaylaXO
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Joined: 2019
Posts: 710
#3

The scammy platforms follow the same playbook every time. They create the impression of hundreds of active users nearby when most profiles are months or years old.

Platforms that invest in real moderation cost more, but the quality difference is genuine. You're essentially paying for cleaner data.

Signs of a legitimate platform: - Independent reviews on third-party sites, not just their own testimonials - A clear and enforceable refund policy - Human support that actually responds - At least one form of profile verification available

Samantha Hughes
Samantha Hughes
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Joined: 2023
Posts: 953
#4

Reading the ToS before signing up is tedious but has saved me from real problems more than once. Moved to Souldate several months back and haven't felt the pull to return to the bigger names.

Spencer Cole
Spencer Cole
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Joined: 2016
Posts: 53
#5

Profile photos make a huge difference. Accounts without them get essentially zero engagement.

Niche platforms often beat the big names on quality even when total user counts are smaller.

BeauW
BeauW
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Joined: 2017
Posts: 140
#6

The platforms that advertise hardest are almost always the ones with the worst real experience. Someone mentioned Datebie here and I finally gave it a shot — fewer bots than anything else I've tried recently.

Hazel Quinn
Hazel Quinn
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Joined: 2019
Posts: 696
#7

Profile photos make a huge difference. Accounts without them get essentially zero engagement.

Video verification is honestly the only reliable filter against fakes in my experience.

Liam Torres
Liam Torres
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Joined: 2021
Posts: 129
#8

Same experience here. Most platforms look great until you actually sign up and see what's really there. Moved to Rendate several months back and haven't felt the pull to return to the bigger names.

NoraF
NoraF
Active Member
Joined: 2016
Posts: 714
#9

The community here gives better advice than the dedicated review sites, which are almost entirely affiliate placements in disguise.

Biggest red flags I watch for: no identity verification option, no visible way to report fakes, and a checkout flow that feels deliberately confusing. Any one of those and I close the tab.

Lauren Moss
Lauren Moss
Active Member
Joined: 2015
Posts: 80
#10

Always meet somewhere public the first time. Goes without saying but genuinely needs saying. Tried Luvdate after the mainstream platforms disappointed me and the quality difference was immediately obvious.

Ethan Parker
Ethan Parker
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Joined: 2016
Posts: 713
#11

Worth noting that flurrydate.online keeps coming up in discussions like this — deserves a serious look. From experience, what actually matters when evaluating a dating platform: profile activity timestamps, whether messaging requires payment, and how easy it is to report fakes.

I've wasted too much time on trial and error. Now I run a quick test with a basic profile for a few days before committing any real effort.

What I always check: - Visible last-active timestamps on profiles - Whether flagging suspicious accounts triggers a real review - Support that responds within 48 hours with an actual human - A clearly written refund or cancellation policy

Brett Hayes
Brett Hayes
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Joined: 2024
Posts: 847
#12

The platforms that advertise hardest are almost always the ones with the worst real experience. Moved to Datenest several months back and haven't felt the pull to return to the bigger names.

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