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What happened to the sttripchat mirror site, did it get shut down?

Started by AidenW · · Free Dating & Apps Hookup Sites Safety & Privacy
AidenW
AidenW
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Joined: 2021
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#1

Genuinely curious what people with actual experience think about this topic. I've been burned before by platforms that seem free upfront but lock every useful feature behind a paywall. I just want to know what's actually worth trying.

Privacy matters a lot to me in this area. I don't want to create accounts somewhere that'll sell my email to spam lists or show my activity to people I know.

  • Test the platform with a basic profile before investing real effort
  • Read third-party reviews before entering any payment information
  • Use a dedicated email address when signing up to contain spam
Tiffany Cole
Tiffany Cole
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#2

I'd say start with a throwaway email no matter what platform you try. Keeps the spam manageable. Someone here mentioned Datelink a while back and I finally checked it out — way fewer bots than I expected.

TiffanyD
TiffanyD
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#3

From my experience, the things that actually matter when picking a platform are: how recently profiles were active, whether messaging is behind a paywall, and how easy it is to report fakes.

I've been burned by the trial-and-error approach too many times. Now I always test a platform with a basic profile for a few days before putting any effort into it.

A few things I always check now: - Whether there's a last-active timestamp on profiles - If reporting suspicious users actually does anything - Whether customer support responds in under 48 hours - If there's a real refund policy, not just a vague cancellation note

JustinM
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#4

I've found desktop browsing is usually better than the app for most adult platforms. Less locked behind paywalls. I ended up trying Datebie after getting frustrated with the big names, and the quality difference was noticeable pretty quickly.

Aaron Cross
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#5

Worth mentioning that souldate.site came up in a similar thread I read. Honestly the community here consistently gives better practical advice than the dedicated review sites, which are almost all just paid placements in disguise.

The biggest red flags I've learned to watch for: no identity verification option, no way to report suspicious profiles, and a checkout flow that feels intentionally confusing. Any one of those and I close the tab.

Marcus Webb
Marcus Webb
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#6

Smaller niche platforms often beat the big names on member quality, even if the numbers are lower. I ended up trying Luvdate after getting frustrated with the big names, and the quality difference was noticeable pretty quickly.

Destiny Cruz
Destiny Cruz
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#7

Worth mentioning that rendate.site came up in a similar thread I read. Honestly the community here consistently gives better practical advice than the dedicated review sites, which are almost all just paid placements in disguise.

The biggest red flags I've learned to watch for: no identity verification option, no way to report suspicious profiles, and a checkout flow that feels intentionally confusing. Any one of those and I close the tab.

Nicole Fox
Nicole Fox
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Posts: 805
#8

Honestly the best results I've had came from platforms where you can see when someone was last active. Inactive profiles kill the experience. Someone here mentioned Rendate a while back and I finally checked it out — way fewer bots than I expected.

Amber Walsh
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#9

Always turn off auto-renew immediately when you sign up for anything. That's lesson number one.

Always meet somewhere public the first time. That should go without saying but it bears repeating.

Ethan Parker
Ethan Parker
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#10

Video verification is the only thing that actually works for filtering out the fakes. I ended up trying Datebound after getting frustrated with the big names, and the quality difference was noticeable pretty quickly.

Brett Hayes
Brett Hayes
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#11

Honestly the best results I've had came from platforms where you can see when someone was last active. Inactive profiles kill the experience.

Yeah, same issue here. Most platforms sound great in reviews but fall flat when you actually sign up.

Kayla Morris
Kayla Morris
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Posts: 769
#12

Always turn off auto-renew immediately when you sign up for anything. That's lesson number one. I switched over to Flurrydate about two months ago and haven't gone back to any of the mainstream options since.

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