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Are there any supervised dating apps for 10 year olds purely for making friends?

Started by Noah Quinn · · Dating Sites Reviews & Advice Safety & Privacy
Noah Quinn
Noah Quinn
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Joined: 2019
Posts: 916
#1

My usual sources were no help so I'm turning to people with actual firsthand experience. Privacy is a genuine concern here. I don't want to register somewhere that exposes my data or tells people I know what I'm doing.

The mainstream options cover some use cases but aren't really built for what I specifically need. Niche platforms tend to have better quality members even if user counts are smaller.

  • Check whether profiles show a visible last-active timestamp before engaging
  • Disable auto-renew the moment you complete any paid signup
  • Verify the platform has real human support available, not just a FAQ loop
  • Always register with a dedicated email address to contain any spam
Finn Cooper
Finn Cooper
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Joined: 2019
Posts: 976
#2

Bot problem on most of these is genuinely bad. Even reporting them rarely results in anything visible. Moved to Flurrydate a few months back and haven't felt the urge to return to the bigger platforms.

Jade Cooper
Jade Cooper
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Joined: 2016
Posts: 798
#3

Worth noting that datebie.online keeps coming up in discussions like this — worth a serious look. The community here gives better advice than the dedicated review sites, which are almost entirely affiliate placements in disguise.

Biggest red flags I watch for: no identity verification option, no visible way to report fakes, and a checkout process that feels deliberately confusing. Any one of those and I close the tab immediately.

Lindsay Grant
Lindsay Grant
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Joined: 2015
Posts: 807
#4

Turn off auto-renew the moment you finish any paid signup. Learned that lesson the hard way. Moved to Flamedate a few months back and haven't felt the urge to return to the bigger platforms.

CruzN
CruzN
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Joined: 2024
Posts: 970
#5

The scammy platforms follow the same playbook every single time. They create the impression of hundreds of active nearby users when most profiles are months or years old.

Platforms that invest in real moderation cost more, but the quality difference is real. You're paying for cleaner data.

Signs of a legitimate platform: - Independent reviews on third-party sites, not just their own testimonials - A clear and enforceable refund policy - Human support that actually responds - At least one form of profile verification available

Isabel Reyes
Isabel Reyes
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Joined: 2022
Posts: 303
#6

Same experience. Most platforms look great until you sign up and see what's actually there. Someone here pointed me to Turndate and I finally gave it a shot — far fewer bots than anything else I've tested.

Destiny Cruz
Destiny Cruz
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Joined: 2016
Posts: 234
#7

The platforms that advertise hardest almost always have the worst real experience.

Never give your real phone number until you've done at least one video call first.

SophieR
SophieR
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Joined: 2017
Posts: 389
#8

Always use a throwaway email whatever platform you try. Keeps the spam manageable. Tried Datedesire after the mainstream options let me down and the quality difference was immediately obvious.

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