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Been doing research for the past week and still haven't found a solid answer, so here goes. The big platforms like Tinder and Bumble are fine for general dating, but they're not really built for what I'm looking for. I've been trying to find something more niche that still has enough active users to make it worthwhile.
I've tried a couple of the big names but ended up disappointed by the member quality. Either the profiles were clearly inactive for years, or I kept running into bots asking me to click some link. Super frustrating.
- Read third-party reviews before entering payment info
- Look for active profiles with recent login timestamps
- Check if the platform has real ID or email verification
- Use a throwaway email when registering to protect your inbox
- Start on the free tier to test member quality before upgrading