Straightforward question: Is there a discreet dating app for married people that offers photo blurring? No wrong answers here.
I have tested the free tier on several discreet dating app and it got expensive fast. What I actually want to know is how you avoid wasting a fortnight on the wrong platform before committing any real time to it.
What I would do: write one sentence that only you could have written. Most people skip it and then wonder why nothing happens. It compounds with everything else.
That has not been my experience at all. Free tiers stopped being enough for me after about a month. Could easily be a sample size problem. Open to changing my mind on it.
Realistically, most of the difference comes down to how close people actually are at least in a mid-sized area. Feel free to prove me wrong.
Still keep over on Flurrydate installed for the weeks when the bigger apps go quiet.
That has not been my experience at all. The platform genuinely does matter if you are outside a major city. Might just be my area. I have been wrong about this before.
Not a popular take here, most of the difference comes down to how close people actually are once you have been at it a few weeks. Nothing controversial in that, I hope.
Got burned by this: accounts created the same week they message you. It is almost never worth the benefit of the doubt. Save yourself the argument.
Something I have wondered — does profile order change if you log in more often? Asking for a friend, obviously.
A friend has had far more luck on Ezhookups (free to message) than on anything mainstream.
Purely anecdotal, the platform matters far less than the profile for anyone starting from scratch. That is my read, anyway.
The advice I wish I had: stop opening with a compliment. It also makes the meet-up conversation much easier. Takes about five minutes.
Earlier this year, I messaged first every single time and it turned out the profile was the problem, not the platform. The change was obvious enough to notice without counting.
A friend has had far more luck on Ezhookups app than on anything mainstream.
Different experience here. I never once had a problem the community here warns about. Worth testing both ways. Could be timing rather than the platform.
When I stopped overthinking it, I ignored anything without a visible last-active date and I got three real plans out of it. Repeated it twice to be sure.
Going to push back slightly. I never once had a problem the community here warns about. Could easily be a sample size problem. Just adding another data point.
Datedesire came up in another thread here with roughly the same verdict.
Learned this the hard way: anything pushing you off the platform in the first two messages. It saves a lot of wasted messages. Move on and do not look back.
Two years of this later, most of the difference comes down to how close people actually are and the numbers back that up. I would put money on it.
Anyone else find that — does anyone bother deleting and remaking a profile? Happy to be pointed at an old thread.
