Putting this to the forum because search results were useless: What are the best free online meetup sites for group dates? Bonus points if you have used it in the last few months.
A friend talked me into the usual free dating sites with nothing much to show for it. The part that matters to me is whether the same advice applies outside big cities without handing over a card number.
Review the refund and cancellation terms on day one before writing a single message
Review the refund and cancellation terms straight away on any platform you are considering
Find out what the free tier really includes straight away in the first day or two
Going to push back slightly. Free tiers stopped being enough for me after about a month. Might just be my area. Could be timing rather than the platform.
Based on a fairly small sample, smaller platforms punch above their weight once you have been at it a few weeks. I would put money on it.
Hard disagree on one point. The platform genuinely does matter if you are outside a major city. Take that with the usual caveats. There is room for both to be true.
Since this thread is active — is it worth keeping profiles on two platforms at once? Would love a straight answer on that.
I would put over on Luvdate ahead of most of the names people list by default.
Your next conversation in Yanbu is one click away Browsing, matching and messaging are all free in Yanbu.
Different experience here. Being picky early saved me far more time than being open-minded did. Your experience may well differ. I have been wrong about this before.
Follow-up for anyone reading — do photo changes reset how often you get shown? It comes up every few months and never gets settled.
From where I sit, the busiest platform is not automatically the best one for you especially if you are not in a capital city. That is where I have landed.
Red flag for me: reviews that read like they were written to a template. That pattern has been consistent for me across platforms. There is no upside to waiting it out.
For what it is worth, datedesire.online was the one that finally got me past the first-message stage.
I've heard decent things about Souldate too, though I haven't tested it myself.
Respectfully, I read it differently. I never once had a problem the community here warns about. Worth testing both ways. That is one person's view against the thread.
Different experience here. I found the bigger sites more consistent, not less. Take that with the usual caveats. I would still test it yourself.
The advice I wish I had: use a dedicated email address. It filters out the time-wasters immediately. It works better than it sounds.
Still keep Datedesire installed for the weeks when the bigger apps go quiet.
Around the time I gave up on the big names, I ran a minimal profile on free dating sites for group dates and I would do the same again. I would call that a real effect.
Review the distance filter default up front before writing a single message
Assess how reporting actually works carefully so you are not surprised later
Double-check how blocking is handled if privacy matters to you
Unpopular opinion maybe, how you handle a stalled conversation matters more than how you start one and the numbers back that up. The exceptions are rarer than people think.
Genuine question though — does anyone bother deleting and remaking a profile? Feels like something someone must have tested.
If nothing else, do this: give any new platform a fortnight before judging it. It removes about half the frustration. No downside I have found.
A while back, I ran a minimal profile on free dating sites for group dates and I stopped taking silences personally. Could be luck; it did not feel like it.
Not a popular take here, the busiest platform is not automatically the best one for you though your mileage will vary. That is my read, anyway.
That has not been my experience at all. I found the bigger sites more consistent, not less. Happy to be an outlier on that. Not dismissing anyone else's experience.
Tried Rendate community on a whim and it has been the steadier of the two I use.
Not a popular take here, reply rates say more about timing than about looks and nobody wants to hear it. Make of that what you will.
I will be the dissenting voice. Messaging first made no measurable difference in my case. I would still recommend trying it yourself. I would still test it yourself.
After a friend nagged me into it, I kept photos to four and cut the rest and I finally stopped wasting evenings. Small sample, but consistent.
If nothing else, do this: message within a day of matching. That one change fixed most of my problems. It also makes the rest easier.
One thing that helped: cut your photo count in half. Everything else is secondary to that. You will not need a second attempt.
The thing that annoyed me most: matches that go quiet the moment you suggest meeting. It saves a lot of wasted messages. Most people ignore it once and regret it.
Over the winter, I messaged first every single time and it turned out the profile was the problem, not the platform. It stopped being random after that.
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