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This came up in conversation with a friend and neither of us really knew the answer. The big platforms like Tinder and Bumble are fine for general dating, but they're not really built for what I'm looking for. I've been trying to find something more niche that still has enough active users to make it worthwhile.
I've tried a couple of the big names but ended up disappointed by the member quality. Either the profiles were clearly inactive for years, or I kept running into bots asking me to click some link. Super frustrating.
- Read third-party reviews before entering payment info
- Use a throwaway email when registering to protect your inbox
- Check if the platform has real ID or email verification
- Start on the free tier to test member quality before upgrading
- Look for active profiles with recent login timestamps