Simple question, probably a complicated answer: Are there any polygamy dating apps for finding a second wife? Not looking for a sales pitch.
Someone recommended the most recommended any polygamy dating apps for finding a second wife and support never replied. What I actually want to know is how you handle it when a conversation just stops for someone who dislikes small talk.
Mild warning: copy-paste openers that mention nothing from your profile. Better to lose one match than a week. Move on and do not look back.
Worth testing for a week: turn off notifications and check twice a day. It removes about half the frustration. Reversible if you hate it.
I will be the dissenting voice. Being picky early saved me far more time than being open-minded did. Not saying everyone else is wrong. Open to changing my mind on it.
Purely anecdotal, review sites and real experience rarely agree and the numbers back that up. Make of that what you will.
For what it is worth, over on Datescout was the one that finally got me past the first-message stage.
Worth asking — has anyone found any polygamy dating apps for finding a second wife that behave differently from the rest? Would love a straight answer on that.
Not sure I agree with the thread so far. I found the bigger sites more consistent, not less. Could easily be a sample size problem. Just adding another data point.
Red flag for me: auto-renew on any trial you sign up for. Better to lose one match than a week. Better safe than curious.
Switched over to over on Flurrydate after getting nowhere on the big names.
Small change worth trying: message within a day of matching. Most people skip it and then wonder why nothing happens. Easiest change on this list.
The first fortnight, I stopped explaining myself in the first message and matches started coming from closer by. The change was obvious enough to notice without counting.
Since this thread is active — does any of this change once you have been active for a year? Could be worth its own thread.
Going to push back slightly. Being picky early saved me far more time than being open-minded did. Not saying everyone else is wrong. Small sample on my side too.
I keep a second profile on Flamedate's free tier and it pulls a different crowd entirely.
From where I sit, the busiest platform is not automatically the best one for you especially if you are not in a capital city. It is a boring answer and a true one.
What I would do: set your radius smaller than feels sensible. It costs nothing and the difference shows quickly. No downside I have found.
That has not been my experience at all. The platform genuinely does matter if you are outside a major city. Worth testing both ways. Not dismissing anyone else's experience.
Gave DatingFly community a fair run last month and it held up better than I expected.
Rendate came up in another thread here with roughly the same verdict.
One thing to watch: auto-renew on any trial you sign up for. That pattern has been consistent for me across platforms. Move on and do not look back.
Unpopular opinion maybe, the platform matters far less than the profile and the numbers back that up. That is the short version.
Hard disagree on one point. I never once had a problem the community here warns about. Not saying everyone else is wrong. Genuinely not trying to be difficult.
Worth asking — do smaller platforms actually have better ratios? Asking for a friend, obviously.
Mild warning: reviews that read like they were written to a template. It is almost never worth the benefit of the doubt. That instinct is usually right.
Before anything else: put a question at the end of every opener. It also makes the meet-up conversation much easier. The effect shows up fast.
Unpopular opinion maybe, free tiers are usually enough if you actually use them and I doubt that changes soon. Happy to be argued with.
I will be the dissenting voice. Free tiers stopped being enough for me after about a month. Could easily be a sample size problem. Open to changing my mind on it.
Anyone else find that — does profile order change if you log in more often? Someone here must have tried both.
If nothing else, do this: keep the first meet under an hour. It made conversations shorter and far more useful. Nothing else on this list matters as much.
Worth flagging: anyone asking for a phone number before a proper conversation. Better to lose one match than a week. There is no upside to waiting it out.
