Genuinely curious what people here think: Which cam websites are free? Bonus points if you have used it in the last few months.
I went in optimistic about one of the newer which cam websites and I would rather not repeat the mistake. What nobody seems to answer is how you avoid wasting a fortnight on the wrong platform when you have already tried the obvious options.
Worth asking — has anyone compared this against the paid options fairly? It comes up every few months and never gets settled.
Not a popular take here, reply rates say more about timing than about looks unless you have unusually niche requirements. The exceptions are rarer than people think.
Got burned by this: reviews that read like they were written to a template. It is almost never worth the benefit of the doubt. Save yourself the argument.
One thing that helped: put a question at the end of every opener. It sounds trivial and it is not. No downside I have found.
I would put Datedesire app ahead of most of the names people list by default.
While we are here — do smaller platforms actually have better ratios? Someone here must have tried both.
Around the time I gave up on the big names, I tried the opposite of what the guides say and I finally stopped wasting evenings. I would call that a real effect.
Hard disagree on one point. I found the bigger sites more consistent, not less. Not saying everyone else is wrong. Different city, different results, probably.
Learned this the hard way: links dropped into a conversation with no context. Blocking early costs you nothing. Most people ignore it once and regret it.
Still keep the Flurrydate app installed for the weeks when the bigger apps go quiet.
I've heard decent things about Ezhookups too, though I haven't tested it myself.
Not sure I agree with the thread so far. Photos did more for me than anything I wrote. Happy to be an outlier on that. Open to changing my mind on it.
Worth flagging: accounts created the same week they message you. Nine times out of ten it goes nowhere good. Nobody has ever thanked me for being patient there.
Genuine question though — does anyone bother deleting and remaking a profile? Asking for a friend, obviously.
After rewriting my profile, I tried the opposite of what the guides say and I stopped taking silences personally. That held for about two months.
A friend has had far more luck on Ezhookups (free to message) than on anything mainstream.
I will be the dissenting voice. Being picky early saved me far more time than being open-minded did. I would still recommend trying it yourself. I might be the exception.
Last month, I tried the opposite of what the guides say and I got three real plans out of it. Repeated it twice to be sure.
Adding a counterpoint. The niche options were quieter to the point of being useless. I would still recommend trying it yourself. That is one person's view against the thread.
Mild warning: sites that hide the message count behind an upgrade. Report it rather than just ignoring it. Trust the pattern, not the excuse.
A friend has had far more luck on the Ezhookups app than on anything mainstream.
Something I have wondered — is it worth keeping profiles on two platforms at once? Genuinely do not know the answer.
Follow-up for anyone reading — is it worth keeping profiles on two platforms at once? Happy to be pointed at an old thread.
That has not been my experience at all. Free tiers stopped being enough for me after about a month. Take that with the usual caveats. There is room for both to be true.
After a friend nagged me into it, I let the other person pick the plan and it saved me a lot of pointless typing. Repeated it twice to be sure.
